Dust off the blog.
Tap tap tap, is this thing even on?
I have been driving the struggle bus for awhile working to get back to regular writing around these parts. No real reason other than poor planning, occasional laziness, and some new good things implied in the title.
Bit by bit, I have been dipping my toes into the world of freelance writing. The more I get the opportunity to write, the more I find that I love it.
I was recently asked to write two times a month for Catholic Match Institute, specifically on topics related to divorce and annulment. I have also been approached to be a part of some creative projects by several different Catholic female entrepreneurs.
I am loving new opportunities to write in a more professional setting, but it reminds me I still like having this little space here.
One of the reasons I have not been writing much here is on January 8th I started a new job as a Pastoral Associate in a new parish. I am growing to like it more and more, and really enjoy the staff at the church and school. People tell me they love my weekly bulletin articles and like my approach to life and ministry.
There is a lot I am still learning and it is a process learning how to read a new pastor, but I feel happy and challenged in new ways. While I miss those teens in youth ministry, I can definitely see I was starting to burn out. This new change is good for me in a lot of ways.
One the things I am most excited about in this new position is I am getting trained in our diocese as a lay person to help men and women with their annulments. Having gone through the process myself, it it has become a personal passion of mine. I look forward to helping other folks who were in a similar situation to myself.
So yeah, love.
I have met a wonderful man and we have started dating.
We met through a mutual friend (who actually sent us both a Facebook message about each other last January, but neither of us were ready to date). We both have a lot of mutual connections/interests, and my name kept coming up to said gentleman over this last year.
When he saw me as a match on Catholic Match, he sent me a message two days after Christmas.
We went on our first date the same week I started my new job. #hello2018
We are taking things slow, but this truly feels like a healthy, safe relationship with no blaring red flags.
It all still kind of blows my mind, but I feel very peaceful about where we are and trusting myself that this is something good.
Kevin has already met with my Dad (also a Kevin) for dinner to get to know each other and ask my Dad if he is comfortable with us dating. Kevin (not my Dad, the one I like) is going out with my Mom and Dad next, and then taking out my siblings.
I have known when I seriously started dating someone, my family would be very protective of me and I love it matters to Kevin we do this the right way with them feeling comfortable with him.
So if you wouldn't mind praying for Kevin and I, we would both appreciate it very much. :)
Some other exciting things are also in the works ...
My sweet friend and fellow Blessed Is She team member Christy has asked me to be on her podcast in the near future to talk about the experience of divorce and annulment as a Catholic woman. I am so excited and we are looking at dates to record the episode soon.
I am also super thrilled to be giving a talk at the Blessed is She Midwest retreat in St. Paul Minnesota on the weekend of August 10-11.
I was dancing around my office when Beth Davis asked me.
If you are a Midwest girl, and are in need of some retreat time this summer, I would love to see you there!!
What is new and exciting in your lives?!
Happy Easter, friends. :)
I had a hard time listening and watching all the news coverage that followed the evil of the whole Larry Nassar trial.
It is heartbreakingly sad and infuriates me at the same time. It triggers my own scars and wounds.
And it just shows me how much work we have ahead of us as a society and Church to do better.
I was asked to write a blog post for a well known Catholic Young Adult ministry in our area on the topic.
It is hard to capture all the words and feelings.
This is an attempt, but certainly so much more needs to be said.
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I am so sick and tired of this.
As a woman and a Christian, it makes me angry that I live in a world where I constantly hear stories of women and young girls taken advantage of and molested.
I have been heartsick watching bits and pieces of the Larry Nassar trial unfold. I have shed many tears witnessing the pain of more than 150 women as they shared their victim statements during the sentencing. I cannot begin to imagine the hurt and pain those women experience.
Recently, there have been times when I've looked at the crucifix hanging by the entrance to my apartment and I just get angry at Jesus. WHY, LORD?
READ THE REST HERE.
One of the amazing things about the Internet are seeing different ways people are creating beauty and goodness and using their gifts in creative ways.
I have been following the beautiful of Corynne Staresinic at The Catholic Woman for awhile now.
So when she asked me to write on my experience of divorce and annulment as a young Catholic woman, I was so honored to share my voice in her ministry.
Head over HERE to read the rest of the story ...
If you are not familiar with The Catholic Woman, I would highly encourage you to check out the work of this ministry and follow them on social media.
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