What to Say to Catholics Going Through Divorce

I try to use my little space here responsibly; to share with authenticity and talk about painful topics sometimes we don't know what to do with in the Church.
If you have been around here for awhile, you know at the age 30 I went through a divorce, annulment, and in time began the process of learning to date in a new way. My life is radically different from those years.
I think my experience of those things as a young Catholic woman is a perspective not very common in Catholic circles.
As I have done my own healing work, I've realized God can use my experience to encourage or share hope with other Catholic women in a similar situation.
Over the last few years, I have begun to write and share from that season of my life. I receive a steady stream of emails from Catholic women looking for help, resources, and a place for their voice to be heard and pain to be seen.
In the last week, I came across some blog posts I had published with the CatholicMatch Institute on the experience of divorce as a young Catholic. I offer them here for you; whether you a navigating this in your own life or you have a friend or family member facing the pain of divorce.

Sometimes when we have not walked a particular experience or situation, we don't know how to respond because that has never happened to us. I have heard this again and again from other Catholic women who have gone through a divorce.
There are some helpful and not so helpful things to be aware of when walking with someone in your life going through a divorce.
There have been plenty of times where the many good people in my life have offered me advice that challenged me and helped me grow. At the same time, there have been incidents where people offered advice that was less than helpful or just plain insensitive.
In a particular way, I think for divorced Catholics, receiving helpful or hurtful advice can be sensitive to navigate. When I was navigating my own divorce and annulment, I was very fortunate to be surrounded by an army of friends and family who loved me and walked alongside very closely through the pain of those years.
Thankfully, I only had one experience of a friend who said something hurtful and unkind in regards to my circumstances.
Sadly, I know this is not the case for everyone else.
There are some important things to keep in mind. You can read more about them over at CatholicMatch Institute . . .

(Another post discussing The Struggles of Going Through a Divorce While Young may be helpful or encouraging to someone in your life). 
I never claim to be an expert in any of this but I know I am not the only Catholic who gone through this. 
I hope if that is you (or someone close in your life) it speaks to where you are and helps you feel seen and heard.