- a deeper forgiveness of my former husband so the next time I see him I could actually approach him or speak to him in kindness, forgive and bless him. That my heart would not react in bitterness or resentment.
- grieving and giving to Jesus the expectations of how I thought my life would look by this point in life.
- Acknowledging that I do not trust the Lord very well, especially with the desires of my heart. Specifically how do I just give him those trusting in a bigger, deeper plan I cannot understand.
Slowly, He is speaking. I need to continue to be still and ask the Lord what He has to say about each of those things.
It is hard.
And messy.
And a little overwhelming at times.
But I keep praying Jesus help me and asking the Lord for His perspective on what is coming up inside of me.
I am not sure exactly what will come about for me at Easter or what the next six months or years hold for my life.
But maybe I am finally beginning to realize my life is not my own, I cannot see the future. I don't have control over every single area or situation in my life.
I am fairly certain I will need the reminders again, but I wholeheartedly want to use this time, this season to work through these things in my life the Lord doesn't want me dragging around.
I am pressing in close, reminding myself the whole of life is full of both deaths and resurrections.
Growth will come.
New life will come.
It will come for me.
It will come for you too.
My life is not my own.
And even if the story looks radically different than I ever imagined, I know He has a plan for me.
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Oh Patty, this is so powerful! Thank you for so vulnerably sharing your story with all of us. God's mercy and goodness is unfathomable, and this is such a good reminder of our need to rely on him totally and completely-because we always have progress we can be making towards greater healing and holiness. I've been thinking a lot about how last year at this time, there were some very dark and difficult things I was going through, and praise God, getting into a period of counselling helped immensely. And I've thought about how since I finished that segment of counselling, I'm in a much better place-but right as Lent kicked off, God really opened my eyes to the fact that there was (and is) still work to be done, which was a painful realization...but so good for me.
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DeletePatty, thank you so much for this post! My life looks nothing like I had planned and I am getting several "time to grow some more" messages loud and clear as well. I am starting to see and appreciate the gifts in my life, but it's been a long road. Primarily because I am so stubborn in letting go of what I think is right and letting Jesus and the Holy Spirit take the lead. I will pray for both of us this morning that our trust in our Lord's love and mercy will increase.
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