How to Deal with Difficult Family Members During the Holidays

I do not claim to be an expert in any way or that I have the best skill set.
But I have been to a lot of counseling on my own.
And boy, oh boy, has it given me new insights into myself and my relationships with other people.
For many people the holidays can be a messy, even painful time when trying to navigate relationships with difficult family members.
I am sharing some helpful tools and tricks I have learned over at the Blessed is She blog.

Mosey over here to read more.

Would you add anything else to the list? What is helpful for you personally when dealing with difficult people?